Zulie! So great to read your article, have been following your Medium series on Youtube and that's why i'm here! Some great thoughts here on subtly selfish behaviour. Often selfish people do conceal their manipulation under a charming facade, similarly to narcissists. Great to be aware of these behaviours and put in healthy boundaries with selfish people, and if the moment is right, challenge their manipulations!

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